COUPLES THERAPY

“We’re Always Fighting, and I Don’t Know How Much More I Can Take.”

Do you feel like every conversation turns into an argument? Like no matter what you say, your partner doesn’t really hear you? Maybe you’re exhausted from fighting about the same issues over and over, or you’ve started to wonder if things will ever get better.

You’re not alone—and you don’t have to face this struggle on your own. Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, but when it becomes constant or unresolved, it can leave both of you feeling stuck, frustrated, or hopeless.


How I Can Help:

I specialize in working with couples who are caught in cycles of conflict. Using practical, science-backed tools, I help partners improve communication, break unhelpful patterns, and reconnect in ways that feel authentic and meaningful. From the very first session, you’ll start learning strategies to:

  • Stop the Fights Before They Spiral: Learn how to de-escalate arguments and approach tough conversations calmly.
  • Communicate More Effectively: Identify the roots of your relationship challenges, understand each other’s perspectives, feel heard, and finally get on the same page.
  • Rebuild Connection and Trust: Move past resentment, heal wounds, and strengthen the bond between you.
  • Navigate Stressful Life Transitions: Learn how to communicate and support each other during major life changes like parenthood, relocation, bereavement, or career shifts.

Whether you’re navigating a relationship crisis or just want to feel closer and more understood, I’m here to guide you toward a healthier, happier partnership.


Who Is This For?

My couples therapy is for partners who are:

  • Fighting frequently and feel stuck in unresolved conflicts.
  • Struggling to communicate without it turning into a fight.
  • Dealing with the pain of infidelity or betrayal.
  • Facing major life changes like parenthood, relocation, or retirement.
  • Feeling disconnected after years together and want to rekindle the spark.
  • Exploring new relationship structures, like open or polyamorous dynamics.
  • Considering separation or divorce but want to explore every option first.

If any of these resonate, therapy can help you create real and lasting change.


What to Expect

  • Cost: 310 USD per session.
  • Duration: 80 minutes.
  • Scheduling: Flexible appointments, including evenings and weekends, to fit your busy lives.

In therapy, both partners will feel heard, respected, and supported. My approach is warm, practical, and rooted in proven methods to help you start making progress from day one.

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How much do you charge?

You can find all the prices here.

How long is each session?

A standard session is 50 minutes in total. However, we can book longer sessions at your request.

How often do I need to attend sessions?

I usually arrange weekly sessions with each client to start with. However, this is determined by your schedule and circumstances. If you're in a crisis, you may find that more frequent sessions are beneficial, but as you start to improve, you may want to reduce the time we spend together. If you have a specific situation you need advice on, you might come for just one session. It's all up to you.

How many sessions do I need?

The number of sessions you attend is entirely up to you and what you feel comfortable with. Some individuals will see results in just a few weeks, but others may take a little longer. On average, each client may attend 3 to 25 sessions. If you have a specific situation you need advice on, you might come for just one session. There are no strict rules, so it's whatever works for you.

How are sessions delivered?

  • All sessions are delivered over Zoom video meeting.
  • You are in control of your schedule. You will have access to my availability and can pick the time slots that work best for you. You can cancel and reschedule sessions with 24-hour notice.

Are sessions covered by health insurance?

My sessions are not covered by health insurance. I offer private pay services, and my clients typically pay out of pocket.

Tam saved our relationship from a very dark place. There was a time in our marriage when we just stopped being together and started existing under the same roof. It was actually worse than when we were fighting. Tam got us back to talking and actually hearing each other! That was such a huge shift from where we were before. We had learnt a lot about each other in therapy and it brought us closer together on a more intimate level. For the first time in a long while we are making plans and looking forward to our future together.

— D & E, Hong Kong

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