Testimonials

"Tam saved our relationship from a very dark place. There was a time in our marriage when we just stopped being together and started existing under the same roof. It was actually worse than when we were fighting. Tam got us back to talking and actually hearing each other! That was such a huge shift from where we were before. We had learnt a lot about each other in therapy and it brought us closer together on a more intimate level. For the first time in a long while we are making plans and looking forward to our future together."

- D & E, Hong Kong

"I was diagnosed with both PTSD and BPD two years ago. To say that relationships have always been a struggle is an understatement. Tam's been instrumental in my healing journey. Our sessions felt like a safe haven where I could explore my emotions and relationship struggles without judgement. She helped me identify and address personal barriers that were holding me back and sabotaging my relationship. I now feel at peace with my past and ready to make healthier choices in my relationships. I'm happy to recommend Tam to anyone!"

- Alina, Los Angeles

"The best decision I've ever made, for sure! I was a bit skeptical about how much I could really learn from Tam's program, considering I've been in therapy for years and have read every self-help book on dating and healing ever printed. I guess I was just getting desperate and willing to try anything. My ex re-married, and I was still sooooo single, so I gave the program a shot. It's been life-changing. I had no idea how many mistakes I was making! I always attracted men who turned out to be a disaster. I was always doing most of the work in the relationships, investing, investing, and getting nothing in return. Since I finished my sessions, my dating game has leveled up. I'm still dating and haven't found 'the one' yet, but the quality of men I meet now is so different. I feel more confident, and I'm finally choosing guys who are decent and genuinely want a serious relationship. They're actually interested in me and chasing me, not the other way around! I credit these changes to Tam. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Tam! x"

- Vanessa, New York

"I can't thank you enough for what you've done for me, Tam-San. I just wish I'd found you sooner."

- Michiko, Los Angeles

"Our work together was a relationship CPR and it worked! Forever grateful."

- Marisa & Mike, Los Angeles

"I reached out to Tam during a breakup, and her guidance and wisdom have been life-changing. She is compassionate, kind, warm, and very soothing. Also scientific! She knows absolutely everything about relationships, always backs it up with some scientific evidence.The thing that I like the most about Tam - she can explain very complex concepts in such a simple way. I constantly had Aha! moments during our sessions. Totally gifted therapist. Highly recommend."

- Marina, Santa Barbara

"Tam was recommended by a friend when I needed help after a messy end of my on-and-off relationship. I was just soooo heartbroken, depressed, and angry! Before starting my therapy with Tam, I never realised why I always ended up with wrong guys who would hurt me. But Tam was so caring and compassionate, and she helped me understand the negative patterns that I repeated over and over again, and why the same thing kept happening. I loved that, apart from just talking about my problems, we developed very specific directions and tools to change things up and plan how to find the right partner. It made a world of difference! Thank you so much Tam!"

- Joyce, Hong Kong

"I had been a therapy nomad for the last 8 years of my life. I’d literally tried everything! When I started my therapy with Tam, this was the first time I’d truly felt heard and understood. Tam is so supportive, warm and non-judgemental. I came to see her broken in so many ways after my divorce: depressed, anxious, my self-esteem had hit rock-bottom. Tam helped me to heal my wounds, get my confidence back, and feel happier about myself. I finally see that there is hope, I feel more confident, and I am dating again! But, most importantly, I am a better mom to my beautiful baby boy, more patient and present with him. I can’t thank Tam enough for what she did for me."

- Laura, Hong Kong

"Tam's program changed my life! After years of failed relationships, I'm finally engaged!!!! Woop woop! Thank you, Tam! Kisses from Manchester xx"

- Sarah, Manchester

"The best investment I ever made. All my past relationships would end within the first couple of months. I seriously started to think I was cursed! I'm finally in a serious relationship that has passed the 6-month mark. Highly recommended Tam to anyone who is chronically single."

- Jaya, Singapore

"The program is a game-changer. Her insights transformed my approach to dating. I'm now in a healthy, loving relationship."

- Gigi, Sydney

"I can't express how grateful I am for the guidance and support we've received from Tam. My family was on the verge of collapse, and both my husband and I were feeling resentful and lost. She helped us work through all our issues. With her guidance, we've managed to rebuild our connection and trust. I remember the first long intimate conversation my husband and I had after years of hardly speaking to each other. It was so amazing. Tam's work truly saved our family, and I can't recommend her enough."

- Chiara, Hong Kong

"Tam is an extraordinary therapist. My partner and I sought her help during a challenging period in our relationship. Tam helped us uncover the root causes of our conflicts, provided practical tools for better communication, and got us back to trusting each other. Highly recommend Tam!" 

- Tanya & Mauricio, London

"Working with Tam was a true partnership, as we went on my journey together. Tam’s approach provided a safe and caring space for me to uncover that I had experienced trauma in my childhood and develop deep awareness of how, as an adult, these had manifested as damaging behavioural patterns affecting relationships and how I was living my life. Tam always supported me in summoning the courage to proceed towards work that had the potential to transform my life.  For me, the focus for change was how I parent and support the growth of my two children and to develop healthier, happier relationships in my life going forward. After several sessions, I was able to develop an action plan that provided clear direction and reminders when I need them of how to avoid repeating old, unhelpful mistakes in the future. I wholeheartedly recommend working with Tam to anyone who is ready to make meaningful changes in their life."

- Chris, Hong Kong

"Started off super skeptical, but Tam's program exceeded my expectations. It's not just coaching; it is really profound therapy work as well, which I absolutely loved. We unpacked so much emotional baggage I wasn't even aware of. Continue seeing Tam as my therapist after finishing the program. I'm super happy with all the changes in my life."

- Brie, Los Angeles

"I enjoyed the program a lot. Thank you, Tam! Especially for responding to each of my gazillion emails:)"

- Sasha, London

"My journey through infertility was filled with emotional turbulence, and I'm forever grateful to Tam for being my guiding light. Her expertise in IVF is remarkable. Tam's compassionate and understanding. Who's been through IVF knows how dehumanizing it is for women. Tam created a safe space for me where I could open up about my fears and frustrations. I developed effective coping strategies. Thanks to Tam, I faced each IVF cycle with newfound strength and hope, and I'm so happy to share that my IVF journey finally led to the beautiful healthy baby boy!"

- Natalie, Los Angeles

"Tam supported me through 8 IVF cycles!!! She taught me techniques to manage my anxieties and stress. My husband also came to see Tam a few times to get help and we had 4 joint sessions to address the impact of ivf on our relationship. Tam is a true expert in her field, and I can't recommend her enough to any woman going through infertility. With her support, I found the strength to persevere. We welcomed our daughter 2 months ago. I am now seeing Tam for support with challenges of motherhood and again I find our sessions so helpful."

- Sarah, David, and baby Ezra, Los Angeles

"I chose working with Tam because she had been through IVF herself. It was important to me to find a therapist who knows what it's like! It is so so so tough. I can't even describe how bad it was - failed cycles, ectopic pregnancies, miscarriages…. I'd been through everything! Tam helped me to cope with the ups and downs, managing my stress, and maintaining a positive outlook. When we finally got pregnant, I started having a lot of anxiety about my pregnancy. Was constantly terrified to lose it. I think I'd have gone crazy if it wasn't for Tam's support. She is empathetic, supportive, knowledgeable about women's health and IVF. She's been with me through IVF and pregnancy. Thank you, Tam!"

- Hyon, Hong Kong